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Miriam Green
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The New Kids on the Block
They’re he-ere! I can’t quite believe it. All the planning and agonizing has finally come to fruition. My parents are now officially my...

Miriam Green
Sep 6, 20173 min read


Tying Up Loose Ends
Mom stormed away from me only once today. We were on the city streets and I was taking her to the optometrist so that they could replace...

Miriam Green
Aug 30, 20173 min read


Forward Motion
In the middle of my short vacation with my family I suddenly remembered that I’d been writing a letter for my dad in Hebrew to explain...

Miriam Green
Aug 22, 20173 min read


Thinking of You
What an adventure we had today! Mom and I took a walk down town and ended up in a curio shop that we’d passed before but never entered. I...

Miriam Green
Aug 16, 20173 min read


A Toast to Friends
What must it seem like to outsiders—that foul mouth, the anger, the obstinacy? Yes, it’s embarrassing to hear Mom lash out verbally at...

Miriam Green
Aug 9, 20173 min read


Changing Focus
I’m reading Another Country: Navigating the Emotional Terrain of our Elders by Mary Pipher.* It is a phenomenal book filled with her...

Miriam Green
Aug 2, 20174 min read


Another F-ing Day
I am constantly surprised by what a foul mouth Mom has developed. This sweet-natured woman who taught me to watch my manners and never...

Miriam Green
Jul 26, 20173 min read


Out of the Mouth of Babes
I think we should amend the idiom based on Psalm 8 to read, “Out of the mouth of babes—and Alzheimer’s sufferers—comes wisdom.” With Mom...

Miriam Green
Jul 19, 20173 min read


A Moving Experience
There are boxes stacked neatly in my parents’ apartment, evidence that they are truly going through with their move in two months to Beer...

Miriam Green
Jul 12, 20173 min read


The Nun Study
If you are an Alzheimer’s researcher and you want to focus on how a person’s brain might be affected over time by specific behaviors, you...

Miriam Green
Jul 5, 20174 min read


The Portrait
A few years ago, my dad painted a portrait of Mom that, though well executed, troubled me for the expression he chose to apply to her...

Miriam Green
Jun 28, 20173 min read


Boom, Crash
First the sickening sound of the impact, then the jolt as our heads snapped forward and back. Then Mom’s hysterical wailing. It took me a...

Miriam Green
Jun 21, 20173 min read


The Art of Eating Slowly
Have you ever sat with someone who took their time eating, relishing every bite, savoring every forkful? It gave me pause in the rush of...

Miriam Green
Jun 14, 20172 min read


Going Commando
I truly would rather laugh at Mom’s shenanigans than, well, cry or pull out my hair. So, when she returned from the bathroom and handed...

Miriam Green
Jun 7, 20173 min read


Pity
Let’s get this straight. I do not want your pity. I don’t want you to commiserate on how difficult it must be, this Alzheimer’s, this...

Miriam Green
May 24, 20173 min read


Battered and Fried
A dear friend posted a video on my Facebook page of a woman with Alzheimer’s describing the disease and how it affects her. Imagine, she...

Miriam Green
May 17, 20174 min read


Beauty
My wonderful Auntie Barbara is visiting from England. She is full of laughter and the promise of adventure. It means, though, that Mom is...

Miriam Green
May 10, 20173 min read


Death and Moving
To paraphrase a quote attributed to Ben Franklin, nothing is certain except death and moving. These past two weeks have been emotionally...

Miriam Green
May 3, 20173 min read


Ring Out the Old
We did it! We succeeded in persuading Mom to let us cut off her rings. This may seem like a small thing, but the thought and effort we...

Miriam Green
Apr 26, 20174 min read


I Love You a Thousand Kisses
Mom has been having strange hallucinations of late. Each afternoon at about 5:00 p.m., she insists she must go out to work or to meet a...

Miriam Green
Apr 19, 20173 min read
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