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Miriam Green
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Jealousy
I got annoyed with Mom today. Not for what she was doing, but because I wanted something from her. I wanted her to pay attention to me....

Miriam Green
Feb 20, 20194 min read
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Blogaversary!
This week marks the 5th anniversary of my blog, The Lost Kitchen, which features the ups and downs of caring for my mom who has...

Miriam Green
Feb 13, 20193 min read
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Advocacy
When I saw Mom on Friday, I came home sad and depressed. Mom had a bad cold, and it was clearly affecting her abilities. When we pulled...

Miriam Green
Feb 6, 20194 min read
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Four Generations
When my son and his family came for the weekend, we were able to visit Mom for about a half hour before Shabbat came in. Roi, who is 2½,...

Miriam Green
Jan 30, 20193 min read
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Music, Food of Love
There are some days when I feel my mom so intensely, it is uncanny. Today was such a day. I woke up in a bad mood, as if the wind and...

Miriam Green
Jan 23, 20193 min read
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Activity Blanket
Mom was so delighted to see my dad today. It was as if her grey existence suddenly became bright, as if she knew she was missing...

Miriam Green
Jan 16, 20193 min read
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Impersonation
I have been impersonating my mom to pay my parents’ credit card bills, sort out the cable provider, turn down business solicitations,...

Miriam Green
Jan 9, 20193 min read
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2018 in Review
Mom took my cold hand in her palm and started rubbing it. “You’re so cold,” she said. “I just came in from outside,” I told her. I...

Miriam Green
Jan 2, 20193 min read
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Stasis
Sometimes, standing still is a good thing. Mom seems to be in a holding pattern in her new Alzheimer’s ward. She exhibits a wide range of...

Miriam Green
Dec 26, 20184 min read
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Short but Sweet
It’s taken me a good while to figure out and accept that my best visits with Mom are fleeting—short, intense half-hour “dates” that allow...

Miriam Green
Dec 19, 20183 min read
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An Earful
I often think that life in a seniors’ residence must be routine, maybe even boring. And perhaps it is. If you have Alzheimer’s, the...

Miriam Green
Dec 12, 20183 min read
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Miracles
I’ve been wandering around inside this holiday trying to find my spiritual compass. It doesn’t help when Mom, on being told it’s...

Miriam Green
Dec 5, 20184 min read
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Two Visits and a Funeral
I was deliriously joyful when I visited Mom on Sunday. She was so alive, filled with happiness and seemingly present, and happy to have...

Miriam Green
Nov 28, 20185 min read
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Simon Says
How quickly I go from elation to despair—from reveling in my brother Simon’s impromptu three-day visit to anguishing over the person most...

Miriam Green
Nov 21, 20184 min read
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Don't Sit This One Out
Instead of observing and complaining about how Mom is becoming weak, I decided to do something about it. We’d assumed that Mom was...

Miriam Green
Nov 14, 20184 min read
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Incontinence
November is Bladder Health Awareness Month, according to the National Association for Continence (NAFC). This is the first you’ve...

Miriam Green
Nov 7, 20184 min read
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Winter Clothes
What a melancholy experience to go through Mom’s closet choosing winter clothes for her. The season has turned, and now Mom needs sweat...

Miriam Green
Oct 31, 20183 min read
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Engagement
“It’s my daughter, Miriam,” she said as I entered the ward. “Where were you?” How grateful I felt to be identified by Mom. I sat down in...

Miriam Green
Oct 24, 20184 min read
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A Blank Mind
I blanked out while driving today. One minute I was happily driving towards the familiar intersection near my house, and the next, I...

Miriam Green
Oct 17, 20183 min read
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A Daughter's Wisdom
“Should we wake her up?” I asked my daughter. Mom was sleeping soundly, her earphones planted on her ears playing her special mix of show...

Miriam Green
Oct 10, 20183 min read
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